claiming homosexuality to avoid dating a person
kinda ruins your social life, doesn't it?
why not just tell them you aren't interested?
UltimateEnd
02-10-2004, 05:08
I think I'd rather date a Downs syndrome individual that claim to be gay
Otakopia
02-10-2004, 05:08
im going to settle for a cryptic "potentialy dangerous", although it really it depends on how involved the person is in your life, if its just some person at a bar i dont htink it matters, if its your best freind then it will definetly get complicated... that is unless you actually are homosexual
besides, if you are a girl then telling a guy you're gay usually doesn't help things any...most guys just find that to be a turn on, and are even more persistent.
well, i'm bi curious... so i'm a little gay in a way...
and this guy doesn't even seem to notice my refrences to my boyfriend. being gay is so much more final and excluding of dating him.
it's been my experience that telling a person you just aren't interested in them is a sure-fire way to create awkwardness in a friendship.
well, i'm bi curious... so i'm a little gay in a way...
and this guy doesn't even seem to notice my refrences to my boyfriend. being gay is so much more final and excluding of dating him.
it's been my experience that telling a person you just aren't interested in them is a sure-fire way to create awkwardness in a friendship.
just tell him, point blank, that there's already somebody else in your life. if he doesn't get the message, or doesn't want to respect your relationship, then you probably shouldn't be friends with him anyway.
Homocracy
02-10-2004, 05:17
Yeah, just tell him 'no'. There's no reason to claim to be gay, unless it's an expedient to get someone off your back. I'm bi but usually say gay because gay passes with little comment, but with friends and family, I say bisexual. Basically, it shows lack of effort in the friendship you have. Just ignore his advances, change the subject, etc.
The Sardius Dwarves
02-10-2004, 05:24
I think that's a little cowardly. If you don't like them, just politely refuse. Don't lie about your orientation.
exactly.And if word gets out,you may find others of the same sex hitting on you,Then what yout tell them?The truth?no need to create a pointless networ of lies.
Kiwipeso
02-10-2004, 05:32
Yeah, just tell him 'no'. There's no reason to claim to be gay, unless it's an expedient to get someone off your back. I'm bi but usually say gay because gay passes with little comment, but with friends and family, I say bisexual. Basically, it shows lack of effort in the friendship you have. Just ignore his advances, change the subject, etc.
If you claim to be gay, people will want to get on your back and… nevermind.
Just say you've got a STD at the moment that is being treated.
That should get rid of the sexual interest.
meh, i wasn't seriously considering it, it's just that someone suggested it and i kinda wanted to see what you guys thought...
Opal Isle
02-10-2004, 05:45
meh, i wasn't seriously considering it, it's just that someone suggested it and i kinda wanted to see what you guys thought...
Ask the person what (s)he thinks of threesomes.
Ask the person what (s)he thinks of threesomes.
ahahahahahaha.
oh my. but then what would happen if he's into it?
i don't think my bf woudl like the explanation for such a situation... if it was a girl we're talking about then he'd be all for it...
Opal Isle
02-10-2004, 05:58
Tell your boyfriend it's survival of the fittest. He can adapt to bisexuality or find a new chica.
TooWeirdForWords
02-10-2004, 21:32
i did it once, the complete stranger whose ass I grabbed to prove it wasn't very happy though.