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Only A Man . . .

Sumamba Buwhan
08-08-2004, 04:08
Only A Man . . .
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At first glance she looked like any other old woman. Plodding
along in the snow, alone, neglected, head bowed. People passing
on the busy city sidewalk averted their eyes, lest she remind
them that pain and suffering did not stop to celebrate
Christmas.

A young couple, smiling, talking, laughing, arms loaded with
Christmas presents, took no notice of the old woman.

A mother with two small children hurried by, on their way to
grandmother's house. They took no notice.

A minister walked by proudly carrying his Bible in his right
hand, like a well armed Christian soldier. But his mind was
stayed on heavenly things, and he took no notice.

If these people had noticed, they would have seen that the old
woman wore no shoes. She walked barefoot in the ice and snow.

With both hands the old woman gathered her worn button-less
overcoat at the collar to keep out the wind. She stopped and
stood bent and bowed at the bus stop. A red and blue scarf
covering her head, she waited for the downtown bus.

A gentleman carrying an important looking briefcase waited near
her, not too closely. After all, she could have something
contagious.

A teen-age girl also waited for the bus. She glanced repeatedly
at the old woman's feet, but said nothing.

The bus arrived and the old woman slowly, painfully boarded.
She sat on the side-ways seat just behind the driver.
The gentleman and the teen-age girl hurried to the rear.
The man sharing the seat with the old woman shuffled uneasily
and twirled his thumbs. "Senile," he thought.

The bus driver saw her bare feet and thought; "This neighborhood
is sinking deeper and deeper into poverty, I hate to see it,
I'll be glad when they put me on the College Park route."

A little boy pointed at the old woman.

"Look, Mother, that old lady is barefoot."

The embarrassed mother slapped his hand down. "Don't point at
people, Andrew. It's not polite to point."
She looked out the window.

"She must have grown children," a lady in a fur coat suggested.
"Her children should be ashamed of themselves."
She felt morally superior, because she took good care of her
mother.

A teacher seated near the middle of the bus steadied the bag of
gifts on her lap.
"Don't we pay enough taxes to handle situations like this?" she
said to a friend seated beside her. "It's this tax-cut crazy
Republican administration, her friend replied. "They rob the
poor and give to the rich." "No, its the Democrats," a gray-
haired man behind them interjected. "These Democrat welfare
programs just make people lazy and keep them in poverty."

"People have to learn to save their money," a well-dressed young
college man added. "If that old woman had saved when she was
young, she wouldn't be suffering now. It's her own fault."

And all these people beamed with satisfaction that their acumen
had delivered such trenchant analysis.

But, a kind businessman felt offended by this murmuring
detachment of his fellow citizens. He reached into his wallet
and took out a crisp twenty-dollar bill.
He strode proudly down the isle and pressed the bill into the
old woman's unsteady, wrinkled hand.
"Here, Madam, get yourself some shoes."

The old woman nodded her head in thanks. The businessman strode
back to his seat, feeling pleased with himself, that he was a
man of action.

A well-dressed Christian lady had noticed all of this.
She began to pray silently.
"Lord, I don't have money. There is no way I can help.
But Lord, I can turn to you in every need. Lord, I know that
you are a loving God. You make a way out of no way. Now Lord,
let your blessing shine on this old woman. Let shoes fall like
manna from heaven, so that this old woman can have shoes for
Christmas."
And the Christian lady felt supremely spiritual.

At the next stop, a young man boarded the bus. He wore a heavy
blue jacket, a maroon scarf around his neck, and a gray woolen
cap pulled down over is ears.
A wire running under the cap and into his ear was connected to a
Walkman.
The young man jiggled his body in time to music only he heard.
He paid his fare and plopped down on the sideways seat directly
across from the old woman.

As the young man's glance caught the old woman's bare feet,

His jiggling stopped. He froze.

His eyes went from her feet to his. He wore his expensive, new,
brand name sneakers. For months he had saved from his minimum
wage pay to buy these sneakers. Everybody in the gang would
think he was "so cool."

The young man bent down and began to untie his sneakers.
He removed his impressive new sneakers. He removed his socks.
He knelt down before the old woman.

"Mother," he said, "I see you have no shoes.
Well, I have shoes."

Carefully, gently, he lifted the old woman's crusty feet in his
hands.
He placed his socks and his fine sneakers on the old woman's
feet.
The old woman nodded in thanks.

Just then the bus arrived at the nest stop.
The young man left the bus and walked away, barefoot in the
snow.

The passengers crowded at the windows to watch him as he plodded
barefoot through the snow.

"Who is he?" one asked.

"He must be a prophet," said another.

"He must be a saint," someone suggested.

"He must be an angel," said yet another.

"Look! There's a halo around his head," somebody shouted.

"He must be the Son of God," said the Christian lady.

But the little boy who had pointed, said, "No Mother, I saw him
clearly,

He was only a man."
_____________________________________________________

I talked with the writer of this story.
He's a physicist. We are in the same university class.
This class: http://www.mountainwings.com/past/1120.htm
The class felt his story was a MountainWings Moment.

I agreed.

The funny thing is, and the thing that surprised me,
he said the story was true, he witnessed it.
He embellished the writing but the essence of the story is true.
It stayed with him for years until The MountainWings Moment.

The writer: Earnest Thompson

Thank you Earnest
LordaeronII
08-08-2004, 04:30
Ummmmm maybe I'm missing something, but I don't see the significance of this story...?

Is it supposed to be inspiring...? Or what?
Kryozerkia
08-08-2004, 05:06
Ummmmm maybe I'm missing something, but I don't see the significance of this story...?

Is it supposed to be inspiring...? Or what?
Yes, it is. It's supposed to show that there is good in humanity and that if we look around us and stop ignoring the bad we can restore good to this world, and not through religion but through humble actions that make a difference in someone's life.
QahJoh
08-08-2004, 05:08
Wait, his name is EARNEST? Or Ernest?

Last I checked, "earnest" was an adjective meaning "sincere".
Meatopiaa
08-08-2004, 05:41
Damn... It's Christmas again already? Crap, I haven't paid off the credit cards from last Christmas yet. Seems a little warm for Christmas....... hmmm

http://home.thirdage.com/Home/itzmartex/cmas2002.html (http://home.thirdage.com/Home/itzmartex/cmas2002.html)

http://www.rawfoodinfo.com/articles/art_onlyaman.html (http://www.rawfoodinfo.com/articles/art_onlyaman.html)
Sumamba Buwhan
08-08-2004, 12:34
okay, its alright by me if you can make fun of humanitairianism but I was just sharing something that touched me.

leave it to the heartless conservatives to talk sheeyite
Sumamba Buwhan
08-08-2004, 12:58
Ummmmm maybe I'm missing something, but I don't see the significance of this story...?

Is it supposed to be inspiring...? Or what?

I'm sorry that you are so blind that you cannot understand the signifant impact humanitarian actions can cause in the hearts of the downtrodden.

Some people need to be reminded that there is a reason to keep pushing on.
Tasmin
08-08-2004, 12:59
nice. a little moralistic and 'holyer than thou', but touching.

don't mind the others, they're prob just expecting you to turn around and start saying how this proves homosexuality is evil and courupting like everyone else seems to be doing lately.

(angels didn't tell you to post this did they?)
Sumamba Buwhan
08-08-2004, 13:10
:)

as a bisexual I would never do such a thing :p

I just want both sides of the political spectrum to take a step back and think about things.

I recieved this in an email from a very good an very wise friend, and as it shown at the end of the story, it is mostly true except for some embellishments. I thought some might appreciate it. but I did expect the supposedly moralistic right to speak against it because I don't believe them to be spiritual at all.
Tygaland
08-08-2004, 13:13
:)

as a bisexual I would never do such a thing :p

I just want both sides of the political spectruc to take a step back and think about things.

I recieved this in an email from a very good an very wise friend, and as it shown at the end of the story, it is mostly true except for some embellishments. I thought some might appreciate it. but I did expect the supposedly moralistic right to speak against it because I don't believe them to be spiritual at all.

How self-righteous of you.

I understand the meaning of the story but tend to think that is was heavily embellished. No problem with that because it is a story afterall.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion on the story however without you passing judgement upon them for thier views.
Goed
08-08-2004, 13:16
Now now, children, BOTH of you, this is a nice little post with a beautiful message-no need to start a fisticuffs over it.
Tygaland
08-08-2004, 13:18
Now now, children, BOTH of you, this is a nice little post with a beautiful message-no need to start a fisticuffs over it.

I was happy to leave it as a nice story but I was disappointed to see it turned into a conservative bash by the OP. All we need now is Gigatron to make some anti-American comment and we have a true NS forum thread. ;)
1248B
08-08-2004, 13:19
Nice story. Got Walt Disney all over it though. :(

Anyways, why not simply accept that humans aren't particularly warmhearted to begin with? And basically only care for those with whom they share an emotional tie?
Goed
08-08-2004, 13:24
Nice story. Got Walt Disney all over it though. :(

Anyways, why not simply accept that humans aren't particularly warmhearted to begin with? And basically only care for those with whom they share an emotional tie?

Because that's bitter and depressing. That kind of belief is the kind that, sadly enough, makes this things a rarity. Here's an idea: instead of looking down on people, why don't you do what you can for your fellow humankin?



Now Tyga, I know you're mad at the "right wing" comments, and to be honest those really weren't neccisary.

How about we forget the whole thing and, well, let it slide. It IS a good story, after all.
Sumamba Buwhan
08-08-2004, 13:25
Nice story. Got Walt Disney all over it though. :(

Anyways, why not simply accept that humans aren't particularly warmhearted to begin with? And basically only care for those with whom they share an emotional tie?


how can I accep that when I care for everybody? even Dubya? :)

and no it isn't my vodka ridden state speaking for me. I always love everyone. and I stand with a bunch of peole who feel the same. We care for all people and only wish for the best for everyone

(sorry for the anti-right comments :p force of habit :D)
Tygaland
08-08-2004, 13:32
Because that's bitter and depressing. That kind of belief is the kind that, sadly enough, makes this things a rarity. Here's an idea: instead of looking down on people, why don't you do what you can for your fellow humankin?



Now Tyga, I know you're mad at the "right wing" comments, and to be honest those really weren't neccisary.

How about we forget the whole thing and, well, let it slide. It IS a good story, after all.

No, not mad, just disappointed. I thought this might be a thread without that kind of stuff. Anyway, lets move on! :)
1248B
08-08-2004, 13:34
how can I accep that when I care for everybody? even Dubya? :)

and no it isn't my vodka ridden state speaking for me. I always love everyone. and I stand with a bunch of peole who feel the same. We care for all people and only wish for the best for everyone

(sorry for the anti-right comments :p force of habit :D)

I often hear people say how they care for others Which I think is great. :) But..!! They' ve never been able to convince me that their " caring" is sincere. Example: by donating just a very small amount of money to a good cause you can change the life of many people, yet all those people who really care, or so they claim, prefer spending their $$ on non-essential products, like a cd, then donating it to a good cause.

So, how exactly do you show your love for people? Do you give away a pittance or all you can give in order to express that love? :)
Goed
08-08-2004, 13:38
I often hear people say how they care for others Which I think is great. :) But..!! They' ve never been able to convince me that their " caring" is sincere. Example: by donating just a very small amount of money to a good cause you can change the life of many people, yet all those people who really care, or so they claim, prefer spending their $$ on non-essential products, like a cd, then donating it to a good cause.

So, how exactly do you show your love for people? Do you give away a pittance or all you can give in order to express that love? :)


Wow, someone needs a hug :p

I show I care by...well...how to say this? Giving a shit. All my friends, and practically anyone who's been around me or knows me, knows that I'll listen to any problem they have and do whatever I can to help them through it.

As for random people, I really don't see too many charity causes and such around where I live. When I do see one though, I usually empty my pockets (or at least give what I'm not using for essentials)



Of course, this all leads to me being broke constantly, sooo...yeah ^_^;;;
1248B
08-08-2004, 13:40
Wow, someone needs a hug :p

I show I care by...well...how to say this? Giving a shit. All my friends, and practically anyone who's been around me or knows me, knows that I'll listen to any problem they have and do whatever I can to help them through it.

As for random people, I really don't see too many charity causes and such around where I live. When I do see one though, I usually empty my pockets (or at least give what I'm not using for essentials)



Of course, this all leads to me being broke constantly, sooo...yeah ^_^;;;

I guess this deserves you the Mother Theresa Gold Star of Downright Poor Samaritans :)

Congratulations. :)
Sumamba Buwhan
08-08-2004, 13:41
I often hear people say how they care for others Which I think is great. :) But..!! They' ve never been able to convince me that their " caring" is sincere. Example: by donating just a very small amount of money to a good cause you can change the life of many people, yet all those people who really care, or so they claim, prefer spending their $$ on non-essential products, like a cd, then donating it to a good cause.

So, how exactly do you show your love for people? Do you give away a pittance or all you can give in order to express that love? :)

well we all have our own ideas of what is right and wrong and such and I am sure tha I myself am blind to the good ideas of some of those that I feeel are doing great injustices to our felow human beings and even our fellow animals inhabiting this planet with us.

I am truely sorry for being ignorant of them :(

I myself do what I can by debating and trying to raise awareness (I think the "right" does the same thing). I give what little I can to "worthy" charities (and of course I know political opponenets do the same and I will stop giving them credit here because it takes too dam long). I smile at everyone I see, even those that frown constantly and do our planet and our borthers and sisters wrong. I try to spread what I feel is wisdom that will bring us all together.

I have my own personal problems and I dont feel that I am better than anybody. I want to just live in peace with all my brothers and sisters and try to help everyone (including myself) grow to be the best we can be.
Goed
08-08-2004, 13:42
I guess this deserves you the Mother Theresa Gold Star of Downright Poor Samaritans :)

Congratulations. :)

Wow, the sarcasm is comming off just a bit heavy there.

Seriously dude, wanna tone it down a bit? I mean, I'm glad your taking it out here and not kicking your dog or something, but...whew, you seem pretty damn bitter.
United Christiandom
08-08-2004, 13:43
The story is so very very pointed in the dirrection we all need to look. Pride does hurt us all if we rely on it.

Thank you, I needed a pick-me-up this morning before church.

As for the buggers who seem to be after you about it, ignore them. I believe that you have broken the rules and posted something nice for once.

May God bless you,

-R. S. of UC
1248B
08-08-2004, 13:44
well we all have our own ideas of what is right and wrong and such and I am sure tha I myself am blind to the good ideas of some of those that I feeel are doing great injustices to our felow human beings and even our fellow animals inhabiting this planet with us.

I am truely sorry for being ignorant of them :(

I myself do what I can by debating and trying to raise awareness (I think the "right" does the same thing). I give what little I can to "worthy" charities (and of course I know political opponenets do the same and I will stop giving them credit here because it takes too dam long). I smile at everyone I see, even those that frown constantly and do our planet and our borthers and sisters wrong. I try to spread what I feel is wisdom that will bring us all together.

I have my own personal problems and I dont feel that I am better than anybody. I want to just live in peace with all my brothers and sisters and try to help everyone (including myself) grow to be the best we can be.

Sounds like a good intent you got there. :)

*hands out another Gold Star*
Goed
08-08-2004, 13:46
The story is so very very pointed in the dirrection we all need to look. Pride does hurt us all if we rely on it.

Thank you, I needed a pick-me-up this morning before church.

As for the buggers who seem to be after you about it, ignore them. I believe that you have broken the rules and posted something nice for once.

May God bless you,

-R. S. of UC

...Whoh, I didn't even notive it was Sunday.

..........

...WHOH, I didn't notice it was almost 6 in the morning. I'm off to bed folks, see ya 'round.
1248B
08-08-2004, 13:49
Wow, the sarcasm is comming off just a bit heavy there.

Seriously dude, wanna tone it down a bit? I mean, I'm glad your taking it out here and not kicking your dog or something, but...whew, you seem pretty damn bitter.

No, no sarcasm was intended. When I am sarcastic I use the following emoticon: :rolleyes:

I clearly didn' t. In fact I smiled. A friendly smile because I was pleased to hear what you had said.

Are you always this suspicious? And are you always this quick to jump? And are you always this agressive?

Ever considered a more efficient way of communicating? Like ask " hey, are you sarcastic or what?". Because I gotta tell you that your latest reply, the one quoted here, made me lose all respect I had for your person.
Sumamba Buwhan
08-08-2004, 13:58
No, no sarcasm was intended. When I am sarcastic I use the following emoticon: :rolleyes:

I clearly didn' t. In fact I smiled. A friendly smile because I was pleased to hear what you had said.

Are you always this suspicious? And are you always this quick to jump? And are you always this agressive?

Ever considered a more efficient way of communicating? Like ask " hey, are you sarcastic or what?". Because I gotta tell you that your latest reply, the one quoted here, made me lose all respect I had for your person.


come on guys :(

I just want to spread the love. what is love? I dont know. What I feel in my "heart" is overwhelmingly positive and I could cre less if you bash me overand over again. If you asked me seriously if I loved to be alive I would say no and admit that I wish I were not. I feel that this Physical existence is mostly pain and suffering and I wish I never had to encounter it.

But since I am here and since I have experienced things that you or most of my friends would even believe, I have to accept that I am here for a purpose and so I want to spread the message that there is a puspose tp life. There is a "god" that is full of love for all things as we are all "god" . I dont know he full story bu I know that we are all connected and can work togther if we choose. and I want us all to work together. even if we have different ideas of what that means and what direction that will take us. trust em on this too when I say I am not the least bit religious.

well its late and I must go to bed. I stayed up too late playing unreal tournament 2004 demo and I am going to have a rough sunday.
Ludvigsen
08-08-2004, 14:03
The same story appeared in Chicken soup for the teenage soup which is a load of sentimental crap my mom bought me when I was feeling depressed about a load of american do gooders, what have you guys done recently, well apart from israel.
Anticarnivoria
08-08-2004, 14:07
that was nice - how about we give to charity now, if any one of you people with credit cards did a quick internet search you could find a charity of your choice in under 5 minutes I'm sure and make a change for the better.
Tuesday Heights
08-08-2004, 15:21
Very nice.
Goed
08-08-2004, 23:46
Sorry about the sarcasm thing: I'm very often surrounded by sarcastic people, and the internet doesn't show inflictions of voice and whatnot to help discern what's sarcasm and what's genuine.

Though really, the gold start thing was a bit...over the top :p


As for charities and credit cards, I actually do not have a credit card (I'm 18, I don't need debt NOW!)

Ludvigsen..what the hell? You know, this was a nice little thread, without ANY trace of politics in it, and then you came in. Really, where'd you get that from? :confused:
Sumamba Buwhan
09-08-2004, 16:01
Actually I think I was the first jerk to talk shit and brought in politics :(

I also aplogize...what a hypcritical drunk I am :p

well I'm glad some of you enjoyed the story :)