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Does size really matter to women?

Wolfenstein Castle
26-07-2004, 12:05
A question that has plagued men for centuries. :headbang:
1248B
26-07-2004, 12:06
Yes, the size of your wallet really matters to a woman :)
Wolfenstein Castle
26-07-2004, 12:07
no the other size
1248B
26-07-2004, 12:11
no the other size

What other size would that be? Surely you are not referring to the other size, right?:o
Pax Salam
26-07-2004, 12:12
Of course dress sizes matter.
Shaed
26-07-2004, 12:16
Well, I have a range - too small matters, because well... if my toys provide more pleasure, I'd rather use those.

Too big is just really, really offputting though. Bleah, if I wanted to be *impaled*, I'd run out in front of javalin throwers.


And guys, if a girls obsesses about that sort of thing, you'd probably be better off with a girl who *didn't* make you feel self-conscious about it anyway - after all, if that's all she's worried about, she'll leave you for someone with an extra half an inch anyway.
Dezzan
26-07-2004, 12:24
it's not the size that matters - it's the quality of the pheromones :D

hey no...size really does not matter...best i ever had was actually the smallest (measured only by eye i hasten to add...i don't go round with a ruler ;))
Komokom
26-07-2004, 12:48
Well, from what I've heard ...

At first ... 2 doors is sexy, but if a family results, your going to need to up-size to 4 ...
Banhammer
26-07-2004, 14:45
/me cringes...

bastards!

why won't you just be happy with the inch i give you.

/me runs.
Ashmoria
26-07-2004, 15:06
there is too small and too big, the rest it knowing what to do with it. some "well endowed" men think that a woman should climax just from looking at his magnificence.

in any case, only a fool chooses a man on the basis of that which he has no power to change. well maybe for a one-night stand but not to KEEP.

its ALMOST as stupid as choosing a woman on the basis of her breast size.
Terra - Domina
26-07-2004, 15:09
im sure there is a time and a place where penis size is very important. Like while having sex.

Other than that im sure its reletivly unimportant. if not, it should be
Cuneo Island
26-07-2004, 15:12
I've heard different things from different women.
Bottle
26-07-2004, 15:25
as a woman, yes, size matters. it's not enough just by itself, you gots to know what you are doing as well, but it does matter. any woman who says otherwise is either a virgin or lying.
Tango Urilla
26-07-2004, 15:26
remember she lied.
Keruvalia
26-07-2004, 15:26
I think the size of your gut is a more important thing to worry about.
Salishe
26-07-2004, 15:30
I would imagine Bottle has it more in line with reality....some women might indeed like the feeling of being "full" so to speak, yet if a man can not use what he has to make the girl climax...how big he is really a moot point now isn't it?...the motion of the ocean so to speak...if you can't nail the g spot ya might as well call it a nite and go home guys.
Violets and Kitties
26-07-2004, 17:25
All other things being equal, yes. Bigger is better.

_big however_

Skill and knowing how to use what you've got are of primary importance. As are other skills involving hands and tongues. Skill can trump size anyday. So, if you are GOOD enough, it doesn't really matter how big you are.
Cetaceaus
26-07-2004, 17:43
If you can reproduce, not matter how insignificant the size, then to me penis size doesn't matter. Of course, it's different with women, because they're all lying, cheating sluts who are only after your money.
LannaN
26-07-2004, 18:13
i really dont think size matters... cause it cant be THAT small right? :P
LannaN
26-07-2004, 18:14
If you can reproduce, not matter how insignificant the size, then to me penis size doesn't matter. Of course, it's different with women, because they're all lying, cheating sluts who are only after your money.
lol... not all women are like that...
but then again, how would i know, i'm only a girl :P
Cuneo Island
26-07-2004, 18:15
Talk about stereotyping.
Dezzan
26-07-2004, 18:25
as a woman, yes, size matters. it's not enough just by itself, you gots to know what you are doing as well, but it does matter. any woman who says otherwise is either a virgin or lying.

Well Bottle, i sure ain't a virgin and i'm not in the habit of telling lies...all i can say that in my experience the smallest was the best. Boy was he hot stuff...

But that's what i said about pheromones being so important...it's not just the size of a particular part of the male anatomy which matters, it's the whole package so to speak.

I reckon that if i'm getting interested just sitting next to a guy and excited by the way he looks at me then to hell with everything else - the chemistry is right and it's going to be good :)
The Dark Dimension
26-07-2004, 18:29
i really dont think size matters... cause it cant be THAT small right? :P

LannaN is all that matters to me, lol! :p
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Ocarinas
26-07-2004, 18:37
As a biologist, I must comment that yes, biologically speaking, in several cases size does matter.

In the first case, consider that the majority of nerves are concentrated within the first two inches of the female opening. Not at the cervix, thank you. Thusly, a more girthy member should stimulate these nerves more completely than a slimmer penis.

Secondly, the human penis, as I'm sure we've noticed, has an odd, flared head. This, to be brief, is designed to scoop out the semen of the previous male, thus increasing the chance that he will impregnate her. Not the previous male. In this case, a longer, thicker member will do the trick better-up to a point.

However, as a sexual person, I must say that size doesn't always matter. A large penis is useless without the proper skill and method. Of course, if its a foot-long and thick as a soda can, you don't have much chance of getting laid, except by a stretched out size-queen.
Wobbledom
26-07-2004, 18:38
there is too small and too big, the rest it knowing what to do with it. some "well endowed" men think that a woman should climax just from looking at his magnificence.

in any case, only a fool chooses a man on the basis of that which he has no power to change. well maybe for a one-night stand but not to KEEP.

its ALMOST as stupid as choosing a woman on the basis of her breast size.

i didn't realise there were any other criteria..........?
Santa Barbara
26-07-2004, 18:42
Size matters, because, as we all know from watered-down pop psychology, women are all secretly repressing desire for their own fathers, because they like having a big strong authority figure controlling them, and a large wang helps create that necessary prelude for their psychological fulfillment. Of course, TOO big and it's not Daddy, it's the Scary Monster. As I well know, of course.
Terra - Domina
26-07-2004, 18:55
Size matters, because, as we all know from watered-down pop psychology, women are all secretly repressing desire for their own fathers, because they like having a big strong authority figure controlling them, and a large wang helps create that necessary prelude for their psychological fulfillment. Of course, TOO big and it's not Daddy, it's the Scary Monster. As I well know, of course.

quite possibly from the mouth of freud himself ;)
Ashmoria
26-07-2004, 18:57
Size matters, because, as we all know from watered-down pop psychology, women are all secretly repressing desire for their own fathers, because they like having a big strong authority figure controlling them, and a large wang helps create that necessary prelude for their psychological fulfillment. Of course, TOO big and it's not Daddy, it's the Scary Monster. As I well know, of course.

a good spanking can provide the necessary verisimillitude
Santa Barbara
26-07-2004, 19:13
quite possibly from the mouth of freud himself ;)

Don't say that. We all know what Freud liked to do with his mouth.
Terra - Domina
26-07-2004, 19:16
Don't say that. We all know what Freud liked to do with his mouth.

sometimes a cigar is just a cigar... but sometimes....

























ITS A PENIS!

wow im a nerd
Bodies Without Organs
26-07-2004, 19:30
Of course, it's different with women, because they're all lying, cheating sluts who are only after your money.

Except, of course, for our dear old Mama.
The Katholik Kingdom
26-07-2004, 19:38
This shouldn't matter to you, Wolfenstein.

Size doesn't matter when your masturbating :D

zing, baby
Sheilanagig
26-07-2004, 20:25
I think size being an issue depends on if we like you or not. Personality can trump size problems, but you'd have to be a really amazing lover to overcome personality problems.

Basically, most of the time when a woman thinks it's too small, she's saying that you're a selfish lover, and that maybe you should do some more muff-diving so that she doesn't notice it.

There ARE cases of micro-penis, though. My ex-roomie told me her ex-hubby's was so little that when it was cold, you couldn't see it. It would withdraw into his scrotum. I don't see how you could work with that, but she was materialistic, and his family had money, which I guess trumped a lot of things for her.