Culebra
22-07-2004, 03:46
ok, while i've been 'playing' on here tonight, the Wife has been watching 48 hours story about SusanWright(sp?). While i havent followed the whole story as i have been engrossed in the massive amounts of intelligent debate on NS as usual ;), it made me wonder...
when is 'self defence' ok? in this case, the woman was being abused repeatedly, physically and menatally by her husband. Myself, I wonder "why not leave? why not just get away?" but of course, i am not a woman, and i was raised to stand up for myself and whatnot, i just could not imagine sticking around to let myself be abused. again, i am not saying i am better, just different and i have a hard time understanding and truelly empathizes(although i totally sympathize) (and this show is still on and man that prosecutor hammered on her :( ). after saying enough is enough, the woman, Susan Wright, finally killed him by stabbing him 150+ times.
what do you all think? if a woman(or man) is being abused like this, do have they have the right to kill the abuser?? her actual life wasn't in danger from what i understand but her life was being slowly destroyed.
or given that she wasn't actually physically entrapped, should she have left him and got help?(again, ive only seen bits so i don't know if she tried that and didnt recieve proper help).
its a tough area to judge, and I dont know what i would do. I know if i knew of anyone in that situation i would try to get them to leave, but I understand some just feel 'trapped'...i also feel bad for this jury. they know the woman killed him, but what kind of punishment does she deserve? hard subject..
when is 'self defence' ok? in this case, the woman was being abused repeatedly, physically and menatally by her husband. Myself, I wonder "why not leave? why not just get away?" but of course, i am not a woman, and i was raised to stand up for myself and whatnot, i just could not imagine sticking around to let myself be abused. again, i am not saying i am better, just different and i have a hard time understanding and truelly empathizes(although i totally sympathize) (and this show is still on and man that prosecutor hammered on her :( ). after saying enough is enough, the woman, Susan Wright, finally killed him by stabbing him 150+ times.
what do you all think? if a woman(or man) is being abused like this, do have they have the right to kill the abuser?? her actual life wasn't in danger from what i understand but her life was being slowly destroyed.
or given that she wasn't actually physically entrapped, should she have left him and got help?(again, ive only seen bits so i don't know if she tried that and didnt recieve proper help).
its a tough area to judge, and I dont know what i would do. I know if i knew of anyone in that situation i would try to get them to leave, but I understand some just feel 'trapped'...i also feel bad for this jury. they know the woman killed him, but what kind of punishment does she deserve? hard subject..