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help im gay and dont know what to do!!!

Cravenx2x2xhate
16-05-2004, 15:30
ive finally expeted the truth that im gay but i dont know what to do. My family's dead against them and most of my friends are as well. Someone please tell me what i should do. I cant help but feel this way for guys but my family keeps telling me that i shouldn't. What do I do? :? :? :? :?
The Mindset
16-05-2004, 15:34
Don't worry about it. You're not obliged to tell anyone you think you can't trust right now. I'm also gay, and I was terrified that people would find out at first. But if you take things slow, and only let on to people that you know you can trust, everything will work out okay.
Notquiteaplace
16-05-2004, 15:38
well, at least you know who you are now.

But i think this is the wrong board.

Its a shame when the family is against it, i dont suggest telling them unless you are independant of them as its risk what they will do.

Not gay myself but had a few gay/bi friends. Some havent told their parents, one borrows his mum's clothes with er consent. But sadly most of society isnt that liberal or accepting.
Doujin
16-05-2004, 15:40
Mindset, he's just a troll. Even if he is genuine in his questions, there are better places to ask - www.xy.com and www.mogenic.com, both are good sites. Us queers are just crawling through NS, though. So many I know.. :P
The Mindset
16-05-2004, 16:06
Mindset, he's just a troll. Even if he is genuine in his questions, there are better places to ask - www.xy.com and www.mogenic.com, both are good sites. Us queers are just crawling through NS, though. So many I know.. :P

Infestation almost complete! :O
Kryozerkia
16-05-2004, 16:12
Mindset, he's just a troll. Even if he is genuine in his questions, there are better places to ask - www.xy.com and www.mogenic.com, both are good sites. Us queers are just crawling through NS, though. So many I know.. :P

Infestation almost complete! :O
Wasn't it complete three trolls ago?
16-05-2004, 20:31
I have an idea. Have sex with other guys.
It tends to be what gay guys do.
Daishon
16-05-2004, 20:31
Dude don't worry about it. You are not based upon the opinions and stances of your family, friends, and associates. Therefore if you are gay, claim outloud or quietly. Just as long as you claim it and all of yourself. I hope that helped a little bit. By the way I'm Bi.
The Pyrenees
16-05-2004, 20:34
Mindset, he's just a troll. Even if he is genuine in his questions, there are better places to ask - www.xy.com and www.mogenic.com, both are good sites. Us queers are just crawling through NS, though. So many I know.. :P

Infestation almost complete! :O

haha. I love being the gay plague.
Enerica
16-05-2004, 20:35
Mindset, he's just a troll. Even if he is genuine in his questions, there are better places to ask - www.xy.com and www.mogenic.com, both are good sites. Us queers are just crawling through NS, though. So many I know.. :P

Infestation almost complete! :O

And some gays complain when others insult them, I needn't bother now.. :roll:
Panhandlia
16-05-2004, 20:41
ive finally expeted the truth that im gay but i dont know what to do. My family's dead against them and most of my friends are as well. Someone please tell me what i should do. I cant help but feel this way for guys but my family keeps telling me that i shouldn't. What do I do? :? :? :? :?Pray.