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I started going out with the love of my life 3 months ago (feb. 12) and now she wants to cut it off
we both have busy lifestyles and barely see each other outside of school, her mom is sending her to Cali. for the summer
she wants me to cut it off though because she always ends up looking like the mean one at the end of a relationship, i dont have a reason to end it, the only reason she has is our busy lifestyles and her parents
= ( what should i do?

If you truly feel for her I say fight for it

she's trying to get off easy, make her do it, if she really wants it.

I've tried for the last week
I still can barely get a hug out of her and sometimes a kiss and sometimes shes mean, but I love her all the same

she's trying to get off easy, make her do it, if she really wants it.

I second that. Who does she think she is? Trying to make you look bad?

If you love her, don't let her go. She wants to end it...not you. So she can make the break if it's what she really wants. Not that she already hasn't by saying this...

I'm sorry to hear this. Good luck man.

I know so well that i can be painful, but you should end it before it gets any worse. She just wants to save face. Poop on her. At least you havent spent more than a year with her or anything like that. Maybe you love her, but most likely it will eventually go away. Dont make life any worse for yourself.

One solution.
Get a bunch of cult members to commit suicide outside of her house. It always works for me.

she said she loved me when i questioned her about it and she said yeah but besides that i've never heard it from her lips
she says she wants it to end now so its not as bad later
i dont want it to end

she probably just doesnt want to hurt you. How old are you, btw?

14
she doesnt think one can love until they are at least 15 which is a lot of ass cheddar (bs)

all good things have endings.

but so soon?

If you really love her, you try as much as you can.

If you can't get her, well, you're 14. It's tough to get rid of someone, but hey, sometimes stuff like this happens. You've got plenty of time.

I dream about her
I think about her no matter what I do
It would be like stealing my rib for her to want to leave
I've tried for the past week and she wants to see how it goes but says that its just prolonging the end

Did you consider sending her one of your body parts to show your unwavering devotion?

http://www.monetprints.co.uk/vangogh/1158.JPG

Her mom already doesnt like anyone she does can you imagine her response after finding my finger in the mail?

14
she doesnt think one can love until they are at least 15 which is a lot of ass cheddar (bs)

14?....son...this shouldn't even be an issue with you...why would you even consider getting into a relationship at 14 for Gods sake?..It's puppy love, infatuation...you're in love with the idea of being in love..I speak as a parent with children older then you even...actually at least double your age...I told them the same thing I'm telling you...wait..enjoy this time, it's magical...play baseball...hang with your friends...sit on your porch and watch the nite sky....the last thing you should even try to contemplate is a serious relationship when you barely know yourself..and girls her age are going thru changes as well..hardly one day from the next is going to be the same and make just about as much sense.

thats the thing though, every day is the same, i can already predict everything that will happen, but if life does decide to throw a curb, im ready, which it hasnt for the whole year

I started going out with the love of my life 3 months ago (feb. 12) and now she wants to cut it off
we both have busy lifestyles and barely see each other outside of school, her mom is sending her to Cali. for the summer
she wants me to cut it off though because she always ends up looking like the mean one at the end of a relationship, i dont have a reason to end it, the only reason she has is our busy lifestyles and her parents
= ( what should i do?

Move on, plenty of fish in the sea. If she really likes you she'll go after you.

thats the thing though, every day is the same, i can already predict everything that will happen, but if life does decide to throw a curb, im ready, which it hasnt for the whole year

You're still growing...maturing...learning...adapting..wait til you get your driver's license and you're begging your father to use his car because you saw this attractive young girl at the mall. Just wait until Senior Prom when you see your date in that magical dress which takes your breath away....Goodness son...I'm not your father....talk to him...he's been where you've been..of that I'm pretty sure of...life may be dull now but that is because life is what you make of it..sit in your home and sulk pining away for a young girl whom you've barely known won't do anything for you..get out there...play some ball at a park...ride some bikes with friends on a dirt road..Life will start changing soon enough, sometimes faster then you might be able to handle it..enjoy the slow pace while you can.

Yeah, tell ya what, and I know it's hard to believe, but if you jus leave this behind you, in another month (or 3 or 6 . . . ) there will be another girl . . . and then another.

And they are all beautiful lovely creatures worthy of all your respect and devotion . . . but it will be a long time until you meet the love of your life, or at least until you can be sure.

Until then, enjoy the moment, thank her for the memories. Tell her you'll never forget your first love, but you WILL have others. And they will all be sweet.

And if you have to send an appendage, make it a small toe . . . not as visible as a finger or ear.