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I did it. I did it. I did it. Hell yeah, I did it.
Its party time.

What DID you do?

What DID you do?



Got laid after 40 years of waiting. :lol:

What DID you do?
I told the goddess that I wanted to marry her.

face to face or in another letter?

face to face or in another letter?
Do you think it would be more effective face to face?
I gave her more chocolates and hallmark cards too.
Maybe flowers would be more persuasive in getting her to say yes?

face to face or in another letter?
Do you think it would be more effective face to face?
I gave her more chocolates and hallmark cards too.
Maybe flowers would be more persuasive in getting her to say yes?

you cant buy it from her man. and theres no need to obsses over this. give her a little space to breathe.
and flowers never hurt. but do it in person most definately

What DID you do?
I told the goddess that I wanted to marry her.

Congrats dude.

face to face or in another letter?
Do you think it would be more effective face to face?
I gave her more chocolates and hallmark cards too.
Maybe flowers would be more persuasive in getting her to say yes?

you cant buy it from her man. and theres no need to obsses over this. give her a little space to breathe.
and flowers never hurt. but do it in person most definately
buy what from her? i do not get that.
I want her to say yes. That way I can be with her forever and ever. Even in the world after death. And I do anything for her. That includes never ever again talking to other girls. I really really love her a lot.
I will be gone two weeks. Is that enough time for her to think about it?

What DID you do?
I told the goddess that I wanted to marry her.

Congrats dude.
Gee, thanks. Hopefully she will say yes.
I hope i hope I really really hope she says yes. Then I will be very happy. And I will finally be a complete person.

that'l be more than enough time.
so what all did you say?

face to face or in another letter?
Do you think it would be more effective face to face?
I gave her more chocolates and hallmark cards too.
Maybe flowers would be more persuasive in getting her to say yes?

You asked her again in a letter? You gotta do it face to face. Unless she's stupid she wont jump into getting married just because you throw a few gifts at her. She's got to love you and want to spend her life with you first you see.

that'l be more than enough time.
so what all did you say?
I told her I really really liked her. That I would do anything for her to be happy. I wanted to be the one who made her happy. I said for her to pick anything she wanted me to do to prove it to her.
I dreamed about her when I was 14, that's like 16 years before I met her. That means she really must be a goddess. The minute I saw her, I thought I was hallucinating cause the girls you see in your dreams simply do not exist, unless you already seen them on tv or in class. But I dream about her before I even meet her.
That I was still a virgin cause I was waiting for her my whole entire life.
Then I ask her if she is the one I am waiting for, cause I think she is.
And she is the most beautiful woman on planet earth of all the nations I have been to. And I really wanted to marry her cause I love her a lot and I want to be with her for ever and ever.

face to face or in another letter?
Do you think it would be more effective face to face?
I gave her more chocolates and hallmark cards too.
Maybe flowers would be more persuasive in getting her to say yes?

You asked her again in a letter? You gotta do it face to face. Unless she's stupid she wont jump into getting married just because you throw a few gifts at her. She's got to love you and want to spend her life with you first you see.
How do I get her to that point?

face to face or in another letter?
Do you think it would be more effective face to face?
I gave her more chocolates and hallmark cards too.
Maybe flowers would be more persuasive in getting her to say yes?

You asked her again in a letter? You gotta do it face to face. Unless she's stupid she wont jump into getting married just because you throw a few gifts at her. She's got to love you and want to spend her life with you first you see.
How do I get her to that point?

well, do you talk to her at all?

How do I get her to that point?

You, my friend, are in trouble, if you haven't gotten there yet.

I'd suggest talking to her, maybe trying to spend some time together, go out to eat maybe, date a bit, I don't know, maybe, hmmm, find out if she thinks you are the one too before you try to spend the rest of your life with her.

Above all though, and I'm serious about this, two things.

1. You have to love her above every other woman there is.
2. You have to be able to take care of your own heart. Throw it at her, give it all to her, make her happy with it, that's all great, but if you have nothing left to give because you never took care of it for yourself things are going to end. Badly.

And I'm praying it all works out for you man. I really am.

face to face or in another letter?
Do you think it would be more effective face to face?
I gave her more chocolates and hallmark cards too.
Maybe flowers would be more persuasive in getting her to say yes?

You asked her again in a letter? You gotta do it face to face. Unless she's stupid she wont jump into getting married just because you throw a few gifts at her. She's got to love you and want to spend her life with you first you see.
How do I get her to that point?

well, do you talk to her at all?
I like talking to her. She has a really nice voice.

How do I get her to that point?

You, my friend, are in trouble, if you haven't gotten there yet.

I'd suggest talking to her, maybe trying to spend some time together, go out to eat maybe, date a bit, I don't know, maybe, hmmm, find out if she thinks you are the one too before you try to spend the rest of your life with her.

Above all though, and I'm serious about this, two things.

1. You have to love her above every other woman there is.
2. You have to be able to take care of your own heart. Throw it at her, give it all to her, make her happy with it, that's all great, but if you have nothing left to give because you never took care of it for yourself things are going to end. Badly.

And I'm praying it all works out for you man. I really am.
YOu mean I am not supposed to give her time to think about it?
And I was hoping to skip the whole dating thing until after we was married. Then date her.

How do I get her to that point?

You, my friend, are in trouble, if you haven't gotten there yet.

I'd suggest talking to her, maybe trying to spend some time together, go out to eat maybe, date a bit, I don't know, maybe, hmmm, find out if she thinks you are the one too before you try to spend the rest of your life with her.

Above all though, and I'm serious about this, two things.

1. You have to love her above every other woman there is.
2. You have to be able to take care of your own heart. Throw it at her, give it all to her, make her happy with it, that's all great, but if you have nothing left to give because you never took care of it for yourself things are going to end. Badly.

And I'm praying it all works out for you man. I really am.
YOu mean I am not supposed to give her time to think about it?
And I was hoping to skip the whole dating thing until after we was married. Then date her.

theres an interesting take on it. props to you if it works, but im not real confident that it will.

Dating tends to ruin a relationship if it is done before marriage.

Wait a sec...I thought just last week you barely talked to her or something?

Wait a sec...I thought just last week you barely talked to her or something?
True.

Wait a sec...I thought just last week you barely talked to her or something?
True.

and you told her you wanted to marry her?

yes. Cuase I like her alot.

The weird thing is she said she wanted me to do sexual things to her friend.

The weird thing is she said she wanted me to do sexual things to her friend.

misery loves company?

j/k my pal...I have no words for that

*mumble* *mumble* uhh... UncleBob... *mumble* *mumble* ...yeah, enough of mumbling. UncleBob, you sound exactly like a freshman in high school with a really bad crush. If you really are 40, you ought to have realized some stuff by now.

Dating comes before you get married. This is because once you get married, you've taken vows to spend the rest of your life with that woman. And yes, you can always get a divorce, but I can assure you that divorces always end badly.

Try and bring yourself back to reality. Yeah, you might've seen this girl in a dream once, stuff like that happens as a result of our subconscious and such, I've heard of numerous other occasions where stuff like that's happened. It doesn't necessarily mean that whoever that woman is, that she's the girl for you.

"sexual things to her friend"? ummm... ... how does that show that she likes/loves you? All it really tells ya is that she doesn't have a problem with giving away her friends' virginity or whatever.

also, just the fact that you're discussing this online, in a forum about an online game, with people who you don't really know at all is mildly disturbing. I suggest that you seriously look at yourself and figure out what's going on and what's not.

*mumble* *mumble* uhh... UncleBob... *mumble* *mumble* ...yeah, enough of mumbling. UncleBob, you sound exactly like a freshman in high school with a really bad crush. If you really are 40, you ought to have realized some stuff by now.

Dating comes before you get married. This is because once you get married, you've taken vows to spend the rest of your life with that woman. And yes, you can always get a divorce, but I can assure you that divorces always end badly.

Try and bring yourself back to reality. Yeah, you might've seen this girl in a dream once, stuff like that happens as a result of our subconscious and such, I've heard of numerous other occasions where stuff like that's happened. It doesn't necessarily mean that whoever that woman is, that she's the girl for you.

"sexual things to her friend"? ummm... ... how does that show that she likes/loves you? All it really tells ya is that she doesn't have a problem with giving away her friends' virginity or whatever.

also, just the fact that you're discussing this online, in a forum about an online game, with people who you don't really know at all is mildly disturbing. I suggest that you seriously look at yourself and figure out what's going on and what's not.
40?
I am not 40. Where are you getting this 40 stuff?

how old are you?

how old are you?
30

Dating comes before you get married. This is because once you get married, you've taken vows to spend the rest of your life with that woman. And yes, you can always get a divorce, but I can assure you that divorces always end badly.

If you can't stand the heat, why enter the kitchen in the first place?

Dating comes before you get married. This is because once you get married, you've taken vows to spend the rest of your life with that woman. And yes, you can always get a divorce, but I can assure you that divorces always end badly.

If you can't stand the heat, why enter the kitchen in the first place?
Because your friggin hungry

...honestly, I'm hungry

but symbolically, I'm correct..i think...i should read before I post

*mumble* *mumble* uhh... UncleBob... *mumble* *mumble* ...yeah, enough of mumbling. UncleBob, you sound exactly like a freshman in high school with a really bad crush. If you really are 40, you ought to have realized some stuff by now.


Excuse me. I am a virgin so I have not had these experiences you are talking about. And I don't have your baggage that ruined your relationships.

Dating comes before you get married.
80% of marriages that end up in divorce court were from relationships where people dated before they married.

In the dream, I was already married to her.

Dating comes before you get married.
80% of marriages that end up in divorce court were from relationships where people dated before they married.

I wouldn't be suprised if over 80% of marriages started with the couple dating.