I apparently have been more neglectful of my NS nation (http://www.nationstates.net/rhaomi) than I'd thought, as Ginnoria has informed me that it's now dead. I can still post, however. Should I worry? Or do I need a mod to bring the poor Republic of Rhaomi back to the land of the living? I'll take extra-super-good care of it, I promise! :p
No, you weren't neglectful of your nation, just the rules. You posted two links in this thread (http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showthread.php?t=524289) linking to a site that was clearly outside NS parameters. So clear, in fact, that you posted NSFW notices on them. Not Safe For Work is definitely Not Safe for Schoolkids, in case it slipped your mind.
Your ability to post was in error and has been corrected. Start over, and learn from your errors this time.